Tales often told about women.

 Hey Lovies,💓

We frequently hear tales of women or ladies who got married and neglected their own needs. Usually, we automatically leap to the conclusion that she became less beautiful to her husband because "oh she became too comfy or perhaps started eating too much."😕

Actually, in my perspective, those are correct sentences to some extent. However, in the instances where it has actually occurred, don't we believe there is a reason why this occurs?  She takes care of her own, which is a terrific quality in a woman. If given the chance, the majority of women would go above and above to make sure their house is a secure place to live. The husband and child(ren) are usually taken care of first, and they frequently neglect their own needs in the process. Even though the husband is older (In most cases), there have been instances where he appears much younger than the wife. Give a woman a house, and she will make it into a home, according to an old proverb. The precise meaning of this is that she makes everything her responsibility and looks out for everyone. even to the point that she becomes her husband's stylist and everything else revolves around him. Who looks after HER is the actual query here.

There will be times when you need to step in and be friends with your spouse, which is why people often advise those who are about to get married to "marry your best friend." However, if you notice that your spouse is growing slobby and unattractive in the home, instead of torturing her psychologically or making her suffer like my pidgin English friends would say "make her feel less less" you should be able to talk to her about it and explain how it affects the way you view your spouse. After all "Na only your friend go fit tell you say your mouth dey smell abi?"😜You need to be aware of the situation as friends so you can explain this without offending anyone. 

On the other hand, my wonderful women, while we are all aware of how time-consuming it is to maintain our homes, one should not forget that our husbands chose to marry us because they thought we were attractive. In spite of the physical and psychological changes our bodies undergo after giving birth, let's at least try to make an effort to maintain our sexuality. 

He wouldn't have married you if he wanted a maid. Let's make an effort to obtain help with our extra work and household duties whenever we can. As much as we would like our homes to be almost ideal, our emotional, social, and psychological health must be in good shape.

Keep in mind that we need to feel joyful and self-assured in order to work properly whenever we begin to receive less attention or begin to feel down about circumstances. 

It is well!